non-confrontational
yup, i know have a bitch for a mouth, especially when i'm mad. but when i'm faced with the person i'm mad at, all they get is a saccharine-sweet smile and a sarcastic edge to my tone and that's it. i told guia earlier that it probably confuses my target - they hear one thing, yet see something else. but that's as far as i can go.
i'm non-confrontational, i might as well admit.
unless of course i get pushed to my absolute limit... and then there's no telling what i can say. :p fortunately enough, it hasn't really happened. i kind of don't want it too... sometimes it's scary to find out what you're capable of doing.
so whenever i'm mad or sad or i need to say something, i hide behind my words. i'll either write a letter, write in my blog or text it. but i'll never actually say it. if i can get away without having to say it loud, i would. someone has actually told me to "not hide behind your texts and just say it!" - i just can't remember who. i try and say that to myself though.. it doesn't work. sometimes i think that if i write it, it will come out better and i'll probably be able to really say what i mean. if i say it, i might say something wrong.
it has taken me ages to be a little confrontational, but at least i'm getting there. i can speak up now when i need to... and not wait a few minutes or a few hours after to let someone know i got pissed or annoyed or bothered. i guess you can say i pick my battles?
nah, i'm just chicken, is all. thank goodness for letters, emails and texts. at least, during the times when i need to but my courage won't cooperate, i can say what i want to say. :p
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no connection to the topic whatsoever, but...
there really is a thin line between looking sexy and slutty huh?
i really was pissed off the other day by what i saw. it was just totally inappropriate. i hardly ever say anything, because i think people can judge themselves on their own very well. i consider this as a lapse in judgment and i'm disappointed.
why? why? why?
i hope you know why i asked and that i wasn't doing it just to bug you or antagonise you. i'm glad you took it down, but please think next time. sweetie, i know you want to show off, but please, there other ways. and let me remind you, eventhough your friendster profile says you're 21 - you're really not. Don't forget.
But really, thank you for taking it down. :)
i'm non-confrontational, i might as well admit.
unless of course i get pushed to my absolute limit... and then there's no telling what i can say. :p fortunately enough, it hasn't really happened. i kind of don't want it too... sometimes it's scary to find out what you're capable of doing.
so whenever i'm mad or sad or i need to say something, i hide behind my words. i'll either write a letter, write in my blog or text it. but i'll never actually say it. if i can get away without having to say it loud, i would. someone has actually told me to "not hide behind your texts and just say it!" - i just can't remember who. i try and say that to myself though.. it doesn't work. sometimes i think that if i write it, it will come out better and i'll probably be able to really say what i mean. if i say it, i might say something wrong.
it has taken me ages to be a little confrontational, but at least i'm getting there. i can speak up now when i need to... and not wait a few minutes or a few hours after to let someone know i got pissed or annoyed or bothered. i guess you can say i pick my battles?
nah, i'm just chicken, is all. thank goodness for letters, emails and texts. at least, during the times when i need to but my courage won't cooperate, i can say what i want to say. :p
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no connection to the topic whatsoever, but...
there really is a thin line between looking sexy and slutty huh?
i really was pissed off the other day by what i saw. it was just totally inappropriate. i hardly ever say anything, because i think people can judge themselves on their own very well. i consider this as a lapse in judgment and i'm disappointed.
why? why? why?
i hope you know why i asked and that i wasn't doing it just to bug you or antagonise you. i'm glad you took it down, but please think next time. sweetie, i know you want to show off, but please, there other ways. and let me remind you, eventhough your friendster profile says you're 21 - you're really not. Don't forget.
But really, thank you for taking it down. :)
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